• Contact Us
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of Use
  • DMCA
Thursday, February 2, 2023
TheGreatNews.com
  • Home
  • MINDSET
  • WELL BEING
  • POSITIVE NEWS
  • WISDOM
  • PURPOSE
  • NEW TECHNOLOGIES
  • More Topics
    • ENTREPRENEUR
    • GREEN ENERGIES
    • SUCCESS
    • GOOD LIFE
No Result
View All Result
  • Home
  • MINDSET
  • WELL BEING
  • POSITIVE NEWS
  • WISDOM
  • PURPOSE
  • NEW TECHNOLOGIES
  • More Topics
    • ENTREPRENEUR
    • GREEN ENERGIES
    • SUCCESS
    • GOOD LIFE
No Result
View All Result
TheGreatNews.com
No Result
View All Result

Don’t Wait to Open Your Heart: There Is Only Time For Love

in WISDOM
Reading Time: 6 mins read
A A
Don’t Wait to Open Your Heart: There Is Only Time For Love
Share Share Share Share Share

Related articles

Exploring Minimalism: Why Getting Rid of Stuff Won’t Make You Happy

How I Stopped Chasing Men Who Hurt Me and Found Healthy Love

“Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness.” ~Iain Thomas

Looking back, my most cherished childhood memories can be traced back to my rosy mother.

Intricate forts in the backyard with Spice Girls playing in the background. Sleepovers using Limited Too’s finest sparkly lotion, eyeshadow, and lip gloss. Rainy afternoons filled with friendship bracelets and Lisa Frank activity sheets. Children and teachers showing off their wild side at my mothers’ signature talent shows at the local theatre. Arts and crafts in a room surrounded by floral couches and mauve wallpaper. Flea market field trips to select the perfect charm bracelet. And, loads of buttery birthday cakes with the words Be With Your Dreams written all over them.

Sadly, we grew apart during middle school when she abruptly uprooted our sunlit lives in exchange for a nomadic lifestyle. After traveling with her to two states, I grew tired of the “new kid” title and moved in with my father.

With each of her subsequent moves, my resentment morphed into a towering boulder that blocked her love to seep through. Our tug-of-war relationship continued for six years into early adulthood.

I still remember the day that everything changed.

I was at a work conference when I received an unexpected call from her. I grudgingly called her back in a crowded hallway.

“What?!” I said in a pompous tone.

She whispered, “I’m so sorry to hound you but I need to tell you something. I have cancer. ”

“What do you mean?” I said as my throat sealed.

“I’ve been diagnosed with ovarian cancer—I am so sorry.”

A few days later, I visited her home in Key West, Florida. I can still picture her galloping towards me as I exited the puddle-jumper. She had a mop of loose curls, a wide smile, torn army green cargo pants, and a swollen belly that resembled pregnancy.

For the first time in years, we bonded without the heaviness of the future.

We became giggly movie critics. We strolled the shoreline in search of magical conch shells. We frequented our favorite Cuban restaurant and oohed and aahed over zesty soup. We bought vintage aqua blue tea sets for future tea parties. We swapped stories that were once forgotten.

Instead of cowering in embarrassment, I encouraged her roaring laugh in public. I embraced her hippy lifestyle as we basked in the sun, with Key Lime Pie sticks in hand. I co-directed one of her renowned talent shows featuring local YMCA kids. Her trailer became a treasure trove filled with wispy white pillows, the aroma of velvety hazelnut coffee, and new beginnings.

With each day that passed, the towering boulder of resentment I once had dissipated into raw love.

She didn’t have standard health insurance, but she saved black pilot whales in her free time. She didn’t have a steady job, but she made others smile as she sold handmade bottlecap jewelry at Mallory Square. You see—if you’re fixated on expectations of who someone should be according to your standards, you can’t love them for who they really are.

My mother once wrote me:

“Those stressful days are gone, and I don’t think I’ll ever see them again. I don’t have the meetings and high-powered days like I used to. I drift to work somehow gazing at the blazing sun, aqua blue ocean, hibiscus blossoms, and the marshmallow clouds. I wear island dresses in the endless cool breezes with my hair in a wet bun. Most of the time, I hide my bathing suit underneath it all so I can hit the beach right after.  I’m dreaming of my toes in the sand, laughing, giggling, and snoozing while listening to music and chirping birds. Remember, life is beautiful. You need to find your happy – promise?!

My mother appreciated every moment, even if the highlight of her day was glancing through a window in a sterile hallway. She described the hospital’s cuisine as divine. Although she could barely walk, she somehow dragged her flimsy wheelchair through sand, just to inhale a whiff of the salty ocean air. And at every opportunity, she looked up at the clouds in awe of being alive.

As her soft body turned transformed into brittle bones, I learned the importance of her famous motto, Be With Your Dreams. She taught me how to live an idyllic life filled with nature, wonderment, and positivity. She proved that having a raw, openhearted approach to life was superior than any cookie-cutter mold I once envisioned for her.

In my mother’s last days, she shared tenderly, “Britt, I think of how I left you behind sometimes. I know I wasn’t a perfect mother, but I’ve always loved you so much, baby girl.”

I waited for that moment for fifteen years. And in that moment, I felt nothing. Zilch. Nada.

Time was the only thing I longed for. As tears streamed down my face, I wondered how many more memories we would’ve had, had I learned to appreciate her for who she was years ago.

Most of us wait to resolve our conflicts “later.” The unfortunate part is that minutes and days turn into months and years. There’s a good chance we’re missing out on a relationship right now that could change our entire lives. So…

Open the door to your heart and choose love. Be kind instead of right. Remember the good times. Let go of pain disguised as indifference. Take responsibility for your part. Stop the judgment. Be the bigger person. Forgive the small things.

For goodness sakes, say or do something! Pick up the phone. Write an apology letter. Drive to their house. Plan a trip. Text a nostalgic memory.

Don’t you see… there’s only time for love. And, who knows—if you’re lucky enough, they might just show you how to Be With Your Dreams.

About Brittany Powell

Brittany Powell is the founder of Positivity Pledge, an online community where people build meaningful lives and learn how to embrace a positive mindset. Brittany’s work has appeared in various publications, including Tiny Buddha, Life Goals Magazine, Voyage Phoenix, and Shoutout Arizona. To build your own meaningful life, visit Positivity Pledge and follow her own meaningful activities on Insta.

See a typo or inaccuracy? Please contact us so we can fix it!


Credit: Source link

ShareTweetSendPinShare
Previous Post

Google Meet is stealing Zoom’s trick to easily unmute

Next Post

How to Tell If Your At-Home COVID Test Really Expired

Related Posts

Exploring Minimalism: Why Getting Rid of Stuff Won’t Make You Happy

Exploring Minimalism: Why Getting Rid of Stuff Won’t Make You Happy

August 25, 2022

“Not what we have but what we enjoy constitutes our abundance.” ~Epicurus Minimalism is the lifestyle of removing the clutter from one’s life to make room...

How I Stopped Chasing Men Who Hurt Me and Found Healthy Love

How I Stopped Chasing Men Who Hurt Me and Found Healthy Love

August 24, 2022

“There are two things you should never waste your time on: things that don’t matter and people who think that you don’t matter.” ~Ziad K. Abdelnour  ...

4 Anxiety-Calming Techniques I Wish I Used When I Freaked Out on a Plane

4 Anxiety-Calming Techniques I Wish I Used When I Freaked Out on a Plane

August 23, 2022

“When thinking about life, remember this: No amount of guilt can solve the past, and no amount of anxiety can change the future.” ~Unknown I was...

People-Pleasers Are Liars: 3 Things We Gain When We’re Honest Instead

People-Pleasers Are Liars: 3 Things We Gain When We’re Honest Instead

August 22, 2022

“You’re a liar. People-pleasers are liars,” a friend said to me. I felt like I was punched in the gut. “You say yes when you mean...

How to Deal With Low Moods: A 4-Step Plan to Help You Feel Better

How to Deal With Low Moods: A 4-Step Plan to Help You Feel Better

August 21, 2022

“And some days life is just hard. And some days are just rough. And some days you just gotta cry before you move forward. And all...

Next Post
How to Tell If Your At-Home COVID Test Really Expired

How to Tell If Your At-Home COVID Test Really Expired

7 Signs You Could Be Spending More of Your Retirement Money

7 Signs You Could Be Spending More of Your Retirement Money

How to Successfully Run Multiple Businesses

How to Successfully Run Multiple Businesses

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Weekly Updates

Best Side Hustles in Real Estate to Earn Profits 

Best Side Hustles in Real Estate to Earn Profits 

January 30, 2023
TheGreatNews.com

This is an online news portal that aims to provide the latest updates about mindset, well being, positive news, wisdom, purpose, new technologies, entrepreneur, green energy, success, good life and stuff like that around the world. Feel free to get in touch with us!

© 2021 - TheGreatNews.com - All rights reserved!

  • Contact Us
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of Use
  • DMCA
No Result
View All Result
  • Home
  • MINDSET
  • WELL BEING
  • POSITIVE NEWS
  • WISDOM
  • PURPOSE
  • NEW TECHNOLOGIES
  • More Topics
    • ENTREPRENEUR
    • GREEN ENERGIES
    • SUCCESS
    • GOOD LIFE

© 2021 - TheGreatNews.com - All rights reserved!